embracing change: the union bridal guide to elopements
Planning an elopement? We have all the inspiration you need.
If there’s one thing we’re learning from our brides during this pandemic, it’s that love is far from cancelled. While some couples are choosing to postpone their wedding so that they can still have it be the day they dreamed of, others are reimagining their nuptials, opting for small, intimate ceremonies that put their love front and center. In short: they’re eloping.
Elopements were already growing in popularity before COVID-19 hit the global stage—but this unique situation has made them an appealing option for brides that want to take the time to celebrate the most special relationship in their lives.
We’ve put together a guide to help you plan the perfect elopement for you and your fiancé(e).
The date
There are plenty of options here. If your wedding date is still around the corner, but unlikely to take place as planned, you can use the original date. Otherwise, choose a date in the near future that has meaning to you. Is the anniversary of your first date coming up? Your pet’s birthday? What about the day you got engaged?
Don’t forget about the element of surprise! Even in a pandemic, it’s still possible to plan a surprise wedding for your partner—even if you’ve already set a postponement date in the future. You can pretend you’re going on a day trip, get a handful of friends and family on board (don’t forget to swear them to secrecy), and create a wonderful, intimate event. It’ll be a day they’ll never forget.
Rocky Mountain Bride ~ Union Bridal Feature. Photographer: Aileen Choi.
The location
Before the travel restrictions put in place by the pandemic, elopements would often take place abroad or as part of a larger trip. We might not have that option now, but our West Coast brides have the unparalleled circumstance of being surrounded by parks, beaches, and lakes that can serve as the ideal backdrop to a small, personal ceremony. Take your pick!
The guests
The great thing about an elopement is that you only need to invite the people that you really want at your ceremony. Parents, siblings, intimate friends—that’s it! And if anyone needs to join from afar, make sure that you have a videoconference link set up so that they can be part of your special day.
During COVID-19, we’ve seen couples get really creative around the roles their guests play at the wedding. Have you ever thought of having your dad or brother get ordained to officiate the ceremony? They might be just the right person for the job.
The dress
If you don’t have your dress yet, the thought of buying a wedding dress in time for your elopement can feel like an impossible task. Remember: all you need is a dress that brings you joy and that adds to the wonderfully special moment that you’re creating with your elopement.
With the pandemic happening when it did, we had to cancel our sample sale earlier this year; but this is good news for our eloping brides. We have a selection of over 50 gowns that you can purchase directly from the store, off-the-rack—which means you could technically get married the very next day!
The reception
You know it, we know it: bigger isn’t always better. A small, fun, and intimate reception at a family home or in a garden is a beautiful way to celebrate your day. An afternoon filled with cake and champagne? Sounds like a dream!
Green Wedding Shoes ~ Union Bridal Feature. Photographer: Ivory Embers Photography.
At Union, we’re so inspired by how our brides have responded to the massive curveball that this pandemic has thrown them—and we’re so glad to be able to play a role in their story. If you’re looking for the perfect dress for your elopement, click here to book an appointment. If you have any questions, send us a note!